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	<title>Comments on: True Colors?</title>
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		<title>By: Chickie</title>
		<link>http://www.skitteringthoughts.com/2010/02/true-colors/comment-page-1/#comment-21650</link>
		<dc:creator>Chickie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 02:06:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, the honeymoon is over.  But!  I&#039;m working on my &quot;assertive voice&quot;.  Sweety and the boys say I need to deepen my voice more so Ollie will mind me.

I think maybe they just like hearing me yell like a man.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, the honeymoon is over.  But!  I&#8217;m working on my &#8220;assertive voice&#8221;.  <acronym title="My fantastic husband w/a wonderfully odd personality. I adore him.">Sweety</acronym> and the boys say I need to deepen my voice more so Ollie will mind me.</p>
<p>I think maybe they just like hearing me yell like a man.</p>
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		<title>By: Daniel</title>
		<link>http://www.skitteringthoughts.com/2010/02/true-colors/comment-page-1/#comment-21637</link>
		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 15:25:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ha, ha!  love that photo of tiny dog.

and as for Oliver&#039;s change in behavior, I guess the honeymoon phase is over. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ha, ha!  love that photo of tiny dog.</p>
<p>and as for <acronym title="Insane weenie dog. We saved him from Death Row on Jan 1 2010.">Oliver</acronym>&#8217;s change in behavior, I guess the honeymoon phase is over. :)</p>
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		<title>By: Chickie</title>
		<link>http://www.skitteringthoughts.com/2010/02/true-colors/comment-page-1/#comment-21565</link>
		<dc:creator>Chickie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 00:18:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can yell my fucking head off at Stinky and she just won&#039;t shut up.  I&#039;m afraid to flip her on her back because she&#039;s old and brittle.  I will start that with Oliver and Tiny when they start screaming though.  Thanks for mentioning that.  I do it when they&#039;re being bitches in the the living room but never thought to do it in the kitchen.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can yell my fucking head off at Stinky and she just won&#8217;t shut up.  I&#8217;m afraid to flip her on her back because she&#8217;s old and brittle.  I will start that with <acronym title="Insane weenie dog. We saved him from Death Row on Jan 1 2010.">Oliver</acronym> and Tiny when they start screaming though.  Thanks for mentioning that.  I do it when they&#8217;re being bitches in the the living room but never thought to do it in the kitchen.</p>
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		<title>By: bekah</title>
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		<dc:creator>bekah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 21:44:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>He&#039;s probably learned the barking thing from Stinky. Seriously, Stinky knows how to control your ass from barking nonstop until you do what she wants, I&#039;m sure Oliver has learned to do that as well especially if it&#039;s something relatively new. 

Like children who throw temper tantrums to get what they want, they&#039;ll continue to do if it the parent always gives in. You need to take control of the situation, YOU need to be the alpha dog in the household. You don&#039;t let them control you and bark until you give them what they want. You can yell at them, punish them, flip them on their backs to show their bellies to you (Cesar Milan style!). They need to learn they&#039;re not in charge.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>He&#8217;s probably learned the barking thing from Stinky. Seriously, Stinky knows how to control your ass from barking nonstop until you do what she wants, I&#8217;m sure <acronym title="Insane weenie dog. We saved him from Death Row on Jan 1 2010.">Oliver</acronym> has learned to do that as well especially if it&#8217;s something relatively new. </p>
<p>Like children who throw temper tantrums to get what they want, they&#8217;ll continue to do if it the parent always gives in. You need to take control of the situation, YOU need to be the alpha dog in the household. You don&#8217;t let them control you and bark until you give them what they want. You can yell at them, punish them, flip them on their backs to show their bellies to you (Cesar Milan style!). They need to learn they&#8217;re not in charge.</p>
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		<title>By: Chickie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chickie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 02:49:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, I feel sorry for Tiny because she is so on high alert just waiting for something to happen where she can assert herself.  I&#039;m hoping she&#039;ll give Ollie a rest soon.  Luckily, he doesn&#039;t get mean with her when she&#039;s barking and dancing around him.

I&#039;m trying to establish myself as the alpha.  But I&#039;m a sucky alpha.  Sweety says that I need to work on my &quot;no!&quot; voice.  That I need to deepen my voice and sound like I mean business.  It&#039;s slow  going.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, I feel sorry for Tiny because she is so on high alert just waiting for something to happen where she can assert herself.  I&#8217;m hoping she&#8217;ll give Ollie a rest soon.  Luckily, he doesn&#8217;t get mean with her when she&#8217;s barking and dancing around him.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m trying to establish myself as the alpha.  But I&#8217;m a sucky alpha.  <acronym title="My fantastic husband w/a wonderfully odd personality. I adore him.">Sweety</acronym> says that I need to work on my &#8220;no!&#8221; voice.  That I need to deepen my voice and sound like I mean business.  It&#8217;s slow  going.</p>
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