March 17th, 2010
On The Move!
In 10 days these white legs are making their way to Las Vegas! Woot!
(Maybe you’ve seen the shirt around before…)
Let me ask you something…
When you see a friend making what you think is a bad choice – do you say something? Sometimes I don’t. (Unless I’m flat-out asked my opinion. Then I’ll tell you what I really think because you wanted to know.) You can just tell when someone has their mind good and set on something and nothing you say or do will make a difference. I think it’s sometimes best to just keep your mouth shut and when everything goes to hell in a handbasket – then you can help your friend get their shit together.
Sweety said this makes me a bad friend. A friend of mine is planning a wedding and I truly think it’s a bad idea but she has her mind set on it and I know what kind of person she is. I have kind of gently mentioned other alternatives (like, wait!) but she has no interest in them. I don’t see the point in sitting her down and going over all the reasons why I think it’s a bad idea. Nothing I say will change her mind. So why say anything and rain on her parade?
UPDATE! Thanks for your advice! Luckily, friend called me and said that the wedding is off! She caught the man in some lies and told him to buzz off. I’m glad.
